Things
Men Like in
Women often have nothing to do with
Looks, bra size or any of the standard things we think men fall for. In fact, although
physical appearance
is the first thing they notice (don’t we all?), when it comes to
settling down it often comes in last and counts the least. Believe it or
not, there are at least 12 completely non-physical things men like in
women and I’m pretty sure your boyfriend could list many more and
confirm that your gorgeous physique, beautiful eyes and
soft lips
are not the only things that made him fall head over heels for you!
Interested to learn more about those other things men like in women?
Well, read carefully because every man would
love to be with a woman who is…
1. A Good Listener
Most men appreciate women who are able to just listen – no “ I told
you so” lines, no lectures, tips or comments regarding what you would do
if you were in his place. You know… just sitting, listening (and I mean
REALLY listening)… just showing that you care. Oh, and that involves
being patient as well, understanding that most men need to “process”
their problems before they can talk about them and learning to say,
“Okay, baby, whenever you want to talk about it – I’m here for you”.
2. Spontaneous
Being able to “go with the flow” is one of the things men like in
women the most and I must admit I’m still not as nearly as spontaneous
as my fiancé would like me to be although I’m working on it. Most of our
men would never sing in front of us (
professional singers
excluded) but they just love to hear us sing ( even if it sounds more
like howling), they love to see us dance around the house, they will
gladly throw us a surprise if they know the reaction would be positive
and they love to see us being us (even if it involves a certain dose of
silliness).
3. A Good Driver
Although our men often complain about
female drivers,
most of them would agree driving skills are a must for a modern woman.
But, some of them are ready to do go even further and admit they LOVE a
woman who can make that engine purr like an overgrown kitten! Shocking?
Nah, not really!
4. Accomplished and Fulfilled
Women
who actually enjoy the things they do are more attractive, which means
you should definitely stop whining about the things you DON’T have and
start enjoying the things you DO! It’s not about being extremely
beautiful, having a good job, an impressive resume or whatnot – it’s
about you being happy for who you are as a person, it’s about being
positive, about knowing that you’re a great woman who deserves great
things. And, believe me, it’s true that bad
luck never travels alone, but the same can be said for good luck as well.
5. Able To Enjoy Her Food
Eating healthy
food
and trying to cut down on unnecessary calories is one thing,
obsessively counting them is something completely different and, while
this first thing is actually good for you, the second one won’t really
impress him. Being able to go out to a restaurant or a pizza place, to
relax, to have a good time and talk about your food in terms of how good
it tastes instead of how fat it’s going to make you shows that you’re
confident… and we already know confidence is one of the things
Men (real men) like in women – don’t we?
6. A Good Cook
Our grandmas used to say that the only way to get to a man’s heart is
through his stomach – remember that one? Well, we did learn by now
that’s not the only way although it certainly is one of the ways and, if
I may add, a very good one. Men
love
women who can cook and women who would be willing to learn to cook for
them. That’s when that traditional part of the brain turns on to note
the woman in question would be a good wife. It’s a cliché, I know, but
even experts agree on this one!
7. Real
Although fake girls with their fake this, that and everything turn a
lot of heads and probably get a lot of free drinks, most men have agreed
they could never choose a girl like that for something more than just a
casual romance. Whoa! What a coincidence – we feel the same way about
fake guys! LOL! Which leads us back to that ideal, fun loving, girl next
door all guys love– a girl that likes to smile and doesn’t care what
others think of her smile (thin lips, teeth or whatever), a girl that
can tell a joke, a girl that doesn’t use “words” like O.M.G or T.T.Y.L, a
girl that won’t have a nervous breakdown every time her
mascara starts running… a REAL girl!
8. Ready to Compromise
Every man feels better when he knows his lady is ready to negotiate
and work hard to find a solution that will be acceptable for both sides
so hope you’re ready to compromise girls, because, although guys like
boobs and long legs, they all agree this non-physical quality is far
more important.
9. Caring
He really wants to know that you care for him but, be careful, because repeating “I
love
you” until he can’t take it anymore isn’t a good way to let him know
how you feel. An average man will tell you that he loves you once and
show you how much he loves you five times. You should do the same. Baby
him when he’s sick or tired, surprise him every once in a while, listen
to his problems – SHOW him everything you wanted to tell him because
this quality is one of the very important things
Men like in
Women.
10. Funny
A sense of humor is also one of the things men like in women,
especially in women they are planning to settle down with! Time to find
your funny bone, ladies! Now, I wonder why is that so… are they planning
to make a lot of jokes or they just want to make sure we’re able to
find positive or maybe even funny sides in the future events that aren’t
guaranteed to be stress free and easy? LOL! Don’t know but a sense of
humor definitely gets my vote!
11. Taking Care of Herself
Could you believe this is one of the things men like in women? I
mean, come on, could it be? They actually LIKE when we spend money on
all those crèmes and beauty products? Well, hold on to your chairs now,
ladies, because the experts say the answer is “Yes”. Taking care of
yourself shows him you’ll take good care of him as well and since they
are the ones who enjoy all the benefits of our waxing, beauty treatments
and shopping, they might as well admit they like it.
12. Strong
The last but not the least – one of the best things men like in
women, a quality like no others, a virtue that no woman of today could
live without – strength. You don’t have to lose your best damsel in
distress act, in fact, you can even let him “save” you once in a while,
but he has to know you’ll be there in case things start to get ugly. He
has to know that there is a strong rock he can grab for under that
delicate butterfly façade of yours – a woman he can count on.
You see, things men like in women are almost the same as the things
women like in men. Interesting, huh? Certainly! Do you know of any other
things men like in women? Feel free to ask your man, too!
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